13 Golden Nuggets. Nah...how about 6? / by Kenwyn Alexander

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There are so many different routes to success. No one needs to follow any one path. This hitlist is just something that I was inspired to share, because it has  helped me. Thank you CJ for sharing this. Thank you guys for reading.

Here we go...

1. Get shit done.
Over-thinking, second guessing, and wondering are tools for the slacker. People don’t care for what almost happened,  your problems, or why something wasn’t. They care about what is, and what will be. You have to create. Pros do, make, ship, send, publish, post and deliver; amateurs sit around and wonder, or worse, scratch their ass.

2. Make your own rules.
There are a million paths to get to any single destination. And while it helps to know the rules that others have played by in the past–those you admire who have come there before you–don’t let those rules alone define your rules or your actions. Be respectful as you make your own rules, don’t be rude. But be prepared to chop your own path through the weeds and fend off the naysayers, because if you’re doing something worthwhile there will likely be resistance to your way.

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3. Want to be legendary? Affect change.

4. Want to Affect change. See #1.

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5. Seek out good people.
Think you’re on a solo journey? On the contrary. Making your work, your career, your life, will involve others taking to you and what you do. Therefore, make effort to know, connect, collaborate with, mentor under, the best people you can find. Screw that, the best people you can FATHOM. And once you identify them, seek them. Make an effort to cultivate those relationships and take those good people with you – figuratively and literally – on your journey. Good people tend to attract other good people. And so for similar reasons, it should go without saying, avoid jerks, d-bags, and haters. It’s hard to soar like an eagle when you run around with turkeys. Negative energy is like a black hole for creativity and inspiration. And remember, you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

6. Help others.
When chasing success too many people play the ‘me’ game. It’s all about ‘me’. Well, contrary to what it might seem, success ain’t just about me. Most people who achieve success are concerned with helping others. Helping others cultivates understanding, humility, compassion, and your network – not to mention, a better world. So don’t just reach up and pull yourself there. Be sure to reach sideways and down too, as often as you can muster.

For the rest see original post  on CJ's blog here.